If I wake up feeling like the world hates me, should I just go back to sleep?
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Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
AskTransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Do these terms bother you?English
10·12 days agoThe other layer of all this is that AGAB and “biological sex” aren’t necessarily the same thing. There’s a wide spectrum of people who were legally assigned one binary sex or another at birth that doesn’t actually describe their sex, let alone their gender.
Centering AGAB as much as we do erases intersex people in addition to being bioessentialist and reductive.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Why isn't using a key file the most common way to log into self-hosted servers?English
51·15 days agoJust put everything that doesn’t have OIDC behind forward auth. OIDC is overrated for selfhosting.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Pravda News!@news.abolish.capital•Texas A&M Bans Philosophy Prof. From Teaching Plato Because of "Gender Ideology"English
3·21 days agoEven Plato has gone woke smh
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How do you feel about the idea that “(almost) everyone is bisexual”?English
6·22 days agoI think I just don’t understand how monosexuality works when it intersects with trans/GNC/enby folks. Do you wait until you know someone’s gender until you are attracted to them? Are certain pronouns a turnoff? Some femboys are suuuuuper fem, and some trans women present more masc. And I know some lesbians use he/him pronouns.
It seems like the sharp lines between genders just completely collapse into a fuzzy cloud when you get too queer with it.
Maybe I’m just too bisexual and nonbinary to get it.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Linux@lemmy.ml•GNOME and Mozilla Discuss Proposal to Disable Middle Mouse Paste on LinuxEnglish
11·24 days agoI occasionally use middle mouse paste, but I switched my partner over from Windows recently and they were used to scrolling by holding MMB and dragging which seems to be the default on Windows…
I expected there to be a toggle to turn off middle mouse paste but there just wasn’t. I had to go into multiple different places to disable it and enable autoscroll for all their apps. I ended up installing a hacky tool that would just clear the clipboard whenever MMB was pressed.
If anything can make this process easier, I’m all for it.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Fediverse@lemmy.world•Is posting from #Mastodon to a #Lemmy community a good idea or will this just confuse everyone?English
6·24 days agoThis post is a great example of why they can’t just be stripped; it has hashtags used in the middle of a sentence as words, but then it also has hashtags appended to the end on their own. You’d need to handle both cases to get rid of them.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Me trying to figure out the memes my niblings were using over the holidays [Rule]English
8·25 days agoMost of the 69 jokes I’ve heard are from teenage boys (or the teenage at heart) who barely know what 69 refers to, it’s just the “sex number”. If pressed they could probably tell you what it means specifically but I think most of the time it’s just “funny because sex” not any statement on the act itself.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Me trying to figure out the memes my niblings were using over the holidays [Rule]English
23·26 days agoI don’t see why a sex joke would only be funny if it’s about an act you would personally do. If anything, it seems to me that people would be more likely to joke about a sex act that seems weird to them.
Base 1 usually uses ones, because it represents summation at that point. Using zero as the numeral would be a bit awkward. Also historically zero is pretty new.
Tally marks are essentially a base 1 system.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Fediverse@lemmy.world•[Answered] Does Lemmy need a fork or a rewrite due to its maintainers views?English
161·1 month agoOnce every couple months someone makes a post saying “I just found out the Lemmy devs are TANKIES! Won’t someone do something about it?” No one has expressed real interest in forking Lemmy, though plenty of people have expressed interest in someone else forking Lemmy for them.
Most of the dev interest seems to be on Piefed right now. For some reason Mbin hasn’t seemed to really take off, I don’t see people talking about it as much.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Confused Space Savior SoundsEnglish
1·1 month agoI mean, the planet was literally made uninhabitable for humans. The toxic atmosphere is indiscriminate as to what polity they are a citizen of.
The problem with a political interpretation of HDG is that it’s at odds with the fantasy escapism of being tamed by a plant monster that wants what’s best for you.
Fundamentally, the Affini are bad. Their ideology is rotten and hypocritical and in real life it would not work out the way it does on the page. If you try to think about the political implications of HDG at all you will inevitably run into that. “Benevolent slavery” simply isn’t a thing.
But there’s plenty of fiction that explores evil empires, the point of HDG is to have fun with the kinky idea of “what if a hot plant turned me into a pet?” Exploring the politics of the situation inevitably detracts from the fantasy of it being benevolent.
Calling the Culture anarchocommunism is somewhat accurate. Humans do have say in what goes on in the Culture, there are humans in high ranking roles in the Culture making decisions. Humans aren’t pets in the Culture, and Minds don’t own humans. Humans are only pets in the sense that Minds are superintelligent AI that largely do all the work to run society while humans live post-scarcity easy lives, but they are ostensibly equals.
Here’s some background from the author: http://www.vavatch.co.uk/books/banks/cultnote.htm
HDG is kind of like what anti-Culture propaganda portrays the Culture as, but more rapey.
The Affini are just Rogue Servitors from Stellaris but plants instead of robots. I love playing as Servitors and collecting aaalllllll the little pets~
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•In what way am I the product when using CloudFlare's free tier?English
1·1 month agoFundamentally, a host-to-host VPN is still a VPN. It creates an encapsulated L2/L3 link between two points over another network. The number of hosts on either end doesn’t change that. Each end still has its own own interface address, subnet, etcetera. You could use the exact same VPN config for both a host-to-host and host-to-site VPN simply by making one of the hosts a router.
I see your point about advocating for other methods where appropriate (although personally I prefer VPNs) but I think that gatekeeping the word “VPN” is silly.
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•In what way am I the product when using CloudFlare's free tier?English
8·1 month ago“It has effectively the same function as a proxy” isn’t the same thing as “it’s not actually a VPN”.
One could argue you’re not really using the tech to its fullest advantage, but the underlying tech is still a VPN. It’s just a VPN that’s being used as a proxy. You’re still using the same VPN protocols that could be used in production for conventional site-to-site or host-to-network VPN configurations.
Regardless, you’re the one who brought up commercial VPNs; when using OpenVPN to create a tunnel between a VPS and home server(s), it seems like it’s being used exactly to “create private communication between multiple clients”. Even by your definition that should be a VPN, right?
Melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•In what way am I the product when using CloudFlare's free tier?English
9·1 month agoVPN and proxy server refer to different things. There’s lots of marketing BS around VPNs but that doesn’t make the term itself BS, they’re different and it’s relevant when you’re talking about networking.
Funny enough, there’s a point in a later book in the series where they suggest the “ultimate question’” that 42 is an answer to could be “What do you get if you multiply six by nine?”





I definitely feel the lab burnout, but I feel like Docker is kind of the solution for me… I know how docker works, its pretty much set and forget, and ideally its totally reproducible. Docker Compose files are pretty much self-documenting.
Random GUI apps end up being waaaay harder to maintain because I have to remember “how do I get to the settings? How did I have this configured? What port was this even on? How do I back up these settings?” Rather than a couple text config files in a git repo. It’s also much easier to revert to a working version if I try to update a docker container and fail or get tired of trying to fix it.