the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]
more likely “an ill-tempered sea bass” than “the ill-tempered sea bass” – surely there are others
42f late-dx AuDHD cis bi married parent of trans kid
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the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•when were you superficial/shallow?
8·3 年前I think anybody over 40 playing rock on stage is cringey
did you know that in addition to continuing hobbies and pastimes they did as a young person, sometimes old people fuck??
:the-more-you-know:
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
GenZedong@lemmygrad.ml•What are your takes on consensual sex work?
132·3 年前I have been and mostly enjoyed it, but what I don’t enjoy is debate and paternalistic questioning of my personal agency, so I avoid engaging on this topic.
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
RPGMemes @ttrpg.network•Just added a new location to my campaign world
9·3 年前Behold the House of Waffles
The deathless diner nesting in dreams
Turn your back to the horrors, House, House
Turn your front to me, House, House
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.nettoWholeSomeMemes@lemmy.ml•We don't deserve librarians
461·3 年前Yes, and you get your official golden DARE card!
For real though, prom can be an exclusionary, torturous experience, especially for kids who aren’t cisgender, heterosexual, white, neurotypical, able-bodied, or financially comfortable. In very conservative areas, the rules around who can attend often include stipulations that dates must be opposite genders, and the dress code requires assigned-gender conformation. It’s not unusual for prom to be held at a country club or other establishment with an exclusionary, bigoted past.
Anti-Prom is an effort to make something fun for the kids that those proms leave behind.
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's some sex ed info you didn't know until embarrasingly late?
881·3 年前I did not understand orgasms or realize I wasn’t having them with my partners until I finally did have one. 😂 I genuinely didn’t understand that it could feel that good until it did.
Another win for abstinence-based sex ed in rural America!
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.nettoReddit@lemmy.ml•‘Reddit can survive without search’: company reportedly threatens to block Google
20·3 年前lol no it can’t
It’s really, really, really going to suck to lose that resource when troubleshooting weird hardware and software issues, but that seems inevitable at this point. He really seems to be trying to figure out the stupidest way to kill the utility of the site in the name of profit.
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•v thoughtful suggestion, I had not consideredEnglish
101·3 年前this is my cue to show them the million task lists and corresponding calendar appointments with 87 notifications each
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
World News@lemmy.ml•‘Free world, where are you?’ Gaza hospital chief pleads after babies killedEnglish
331·3 年前Ignoring for a moment the right of an occupied people to resist their oppression: “Hamas” does not include all Palestinians or all residents of Gaza. There are innocent civilians in Gaza, and collective punishment is against international law.
But back to that right: could you please point to an example of an oppressed people successfully freeing themselves non-violently?
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
World News@lemmy.ml•‘Free world, where are you?’ Gaza hospital chief pleads after babies killed
392·3 年前Any thoughts on the decades of increasing oppression the Palestinian people have suffered or are you just pretending this uprising is happening in a vacuum?
What is the permissible amount of violence with which to respond to attempted genocide?
I hate to be callous
Then don’t be?
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•People who've been to a (regular) party, what do people do there?
181·3 年前You did a truly excellent job of answering the question thoroughly! Thanks for putting in so much effort, I bet this will be really helpful. ❤️
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
unions@lemmy.ml•Starbucks threatens to sue union that expressed support for Palestine
5·3 年前Union chapters in Iowa, Chicago and Boston promoted rallies in support of Palestinians after some 5,000 Hamas rockets rained down on Israel.
We’ll just neglect to mention the white phosphorus and pretend these rockets are the only things raining down on anyone.
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
World News@lemmy.ml•UNICEF: 700 Palestinian children killed by Israel
9·3 年前They addressed this in the Hamas press conference - not only do they not have enough personnel to answer all the calls for help they were getting from people trapped in the rubble, but they don’t have the equipment to move the rubble, and also it keeps getting bombed so they wouldn’t even be able to do much even if they had the people and equipment.
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Comradeship // Freechat@lemmygrad.ml•Hexbear be like:English
14·3 年前Also, the best emojis! :party-blob:
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Comradeship // Freechat@lemmygrad.ml•Hexbear be like:English
1·3 年前deleted by creator
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
GenZedong@lemmygrad.ml•Is federation with Hexbear broken?
12·3 年前I’m on Hexbear and I see this post, wonder if you’ll see my comment?
the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What kind of people frequent on forums?
61·3 年前Idk anything about Linux forums, but as far as forums in general:
Are there really so many people to frequent forums and provide answers to people who seem to be in trouble
This is legitimately my husband’s favorite thing to do. He’s not into Linux, he’s into garden tractors and mowers, but he loves the enthusiast forums and Facebook groups he’s in and is very active.
Generally, he loves helping people who want to learn, and specifically, he is nuts about helping people learn to care for their machines and save them from the junkyard. He will spend hours on the phone and days over email helping people troubleshoot things, purely for the joy of helping.
And when he’s not helping somebody, he’s talking to other tractor nerds about how cool their tractors are and how best to take care of them! 😂🥰
So yes, there are people who like to hang around to give help, some people just really, really, really love to help.
feeling simultaneously incredibly seen and incredibly called out
how dare you






I have absolutely no hope for them. But, they are trying some new things - my husband and I both got text messages last week from them asking us if we’d consider running for local office.