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  • Baby steps. They don’t have to be organized lists, there’s no need to overthink it – write emails to yourself, send TODO messages over Whatsapp to yourself – be as chaotic and inefficient as you like in the process of writing said lists, and don’t worry about the perfection.

    Wheelchair users can get around without standing up, and dyslexic people can read and write at their own pace



  • tetris11@feddit.uktoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldManaging an endless todo list
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    13 小时前

    Compare your life to that of a caveman: constantly watching out for predators, fire risks, intrusive insects, maintaining an insufficient shelter, tanning and hiding your clothing out of necessity, sleeping fretfully, and of course spending a good portion of your day scrounging for food whilst keeping the kids alive.

    Our ADHD brains were in overdrive much of our history to cope with the dangers and stress of living.

    Nowadays we have systematic soceital dangers to focus on, but we forget that our minds are far less distracted by real threats, and so we seek arbitrary topics to hyperfixate upon

    Just breathe, write lists, you got this.












  • Ghost of Tsushima:

    A Samurai and several of his battle-ready female companions try to reclaim their island after Mongol invasion.

    I remember thinking “did they really have female warriors and lords back then who called the shots and fought alongside the men? I like the message, but a bit of realism would be nice…”

    And then our brave stoic rugged Samurai literally prostrates himself in front of his lord/uncle at every opportunity constantly grovelling and professing how unworthy he is and how he seeks only to serve, and then I’m thinking “oh yeah… the stoic Samurai is a trope, they were either small militias or snivelling arms of the state.”

    So I’m okay with realism being bent if it means I’m not constantly questioning the values of my main character.