motherfucker [they/them, she/her]
motherfucker—gender neutral term for a biological parent with a feminine coparent
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motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What would a society without any human flaws truly be like?English
15·3 years agoA human with no ability to feel unpleasant feelings would die of malnutrition or exposure. A community where everyone has the exact same needs and therefore could only act in ways that were beneficial to everyone would inevitably die out when those needs couldn’t be met.
I think viewing any of these situations or feelings as good or bad ignores the inherent chaos of our existence. And I mean chaos in the sense that slight changes to initial conditions can wildly change a system’s outcome.
I also think viewing “bad” characteristics as inevitable is often used as a way to dismiss change which is clearly a massive net positive. And looking at society’s problems as simply the aggregate of individual people being greedy or angry ignores the nature of systemic problems and suggests individualistic solutions that are doomed to fail
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.nettoUnixporn@lemmy.ml•Hey, we should all really stop using racist slang to refer to customozationEnglish
15·3 years agoI do too, sometimes. It’s not a healthy habit. I hope you can find a balance that works better for you.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.nettoUnixporn@lemmy.ml•Hey, we should all really stop using racist slang to refer to customozationEnglish
26·3 years agoSo you’re subjecting yourself to authority that you believe is acclimating you to do things against your will?
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.nettoUnixporn@lemmy.ml•Hey, we should all really stop using racist slang to refer to customozationEnglish
351·3 years agoGetting people acclimated to obeying authority by starting with menial commands is a real thing. For it to work, the person doing it needs to have some authority and the commands actually have to be things that the other person won’t object to. Do these people have authority over you? Does changing how you talk about Unix desktops seems like a reasonable command to start that process?
Now, I have no problem with viewing random strangers as authority figures if that’s what you’re into, but it seems a lot more likely that you’ve used this idea of compelled-language-as-social-control as a thought-terminating cliche to justify not thinking about why someone might care about randos online using the word “ricing”. And to be fair, it seems like a weird use a mental energy if the point is to assert dominance, but at the same time, you’re the one engaging with it, so what does that say about you?
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.nettoUnixporn@lemmy.ml•Hey, we should all really stop using racist slang to refer to customozationEnglish
191·3 years agoJapanese cars, yeah?
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Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
121·3 years agoAnarcho tankie, standing by
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
4·3 years agoImagine giving up a technical position for a sales position. I’m poor as fuck but I actually enjoy my work. I own my home. I get to play guitar and play with my kids. If I’d taken the sales position I was offered I’d be dead.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
12·3 years agoSounds like you’re a duct-taper. That’s also indicative of a procedural issue with the company you work for. Shit sucks. Hyper competent duct taper usually ends up being a pretty thankless job as well. Never getting to actually fix underlying problems. Always putting out fires. And everyone just learns to expect it from you, from above and below. And it sounds like you’ve learned to expect it as well. I know all workplaces have their dysfunction, but I hope you can either come to find this one more tolerable or find a better environment soon.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
71·3 years agoSounds like you’ve just got some shitty coworkers, m8. Or are you talk about your direct reports?
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
161·3 years agoThe site actively recruits for communist orgs, mutual aid groups, and provides resources for labor organizers. My organizing committee at work exists because of Hexbear, for better or worse.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
173·3 years agoSigning off on this comment as Cool and Good. Hexbear seal of approval or something like that.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
20·3 years agoSame! Absolute liberals!
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
27·3 years agoDuring World War I, Lenin advocated for a position called “Revolutionary Defeatism”, the idea that the working class does not benefit from sacrificing themselves for the sake of winning a bourgeois war, and that if the working class is organized, a war which is lost presents more of an opportunity for civil war to escalate into proletarian revolution than a war which is won.
I believe this is the stance of most people discussing Russia-Ukraine here, although delving into that seems like an easy way to get off topic.
I’ll second the Jakarta Method. It’s a very stark picture of what we are up against as people who believe in the abolition of money, among other things.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
36·3 years agoFor real. It’s nice to finally find a place that doesn’t make everything so political all the time.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
401·3 years agoThis. There are many families of statistical distributions which reoccur throughout human systems. We can identify them and group them together, but this is not an arbitrary decision and does not somehow mean we’re acting objectively or without bias. People will try to get by on just acknowledging that these distributions exist and allowing implication to do the rest of their arguing for them, but the only point really being made is “abstractions exist”. Congratulations, you’ve identified a group of ideas based on shared properties. Somehow this is supposed to have obvious political implications?
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
522·3 years agoI’m trying to understand what this means. I know the Pareto Principle from two contexts:
- Jordan Peterson bringing it up all the time as a vague hand wave to make his disdain for communists sound scientific
- My old manager who learned about it in some bullshit professional development course
Because of the latter context, I’ve spent a fair amount of time trying to make this “principle” measurable and rigorous in a real business context and it’s just a fool’s errand. If you start out with a conclusion, it’s easy to map the 80/20 rule onto preexisting data, but trying to actually use it to create predictive models, I found it useless.
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
704·3 years agoCapitalism has killed millions more than its apologists could ever hope to claim communism has.
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Memes@lemmy.ml•Lemmy might, MIGHT have a small bias towards the leftEnglish
443·3 years agoUser name relevant! Take my heckin updoot kind stranger!
motherfucker [they/them, she/her]@hexbear.netto
Memes@lemmy.ml•As an owner of children, I approve this messageEnglish
132·3 years agoNo



















If you’re interested learning opsec, step 0 is learning to threat model. Figure out what situations you’re trying to prevent, what actors or forces may cause those situations to happen, and what your options are for stopping them, and what the costs of each of those options are. Then you can make an informed decision. Privacy is a gradual adaptation, not a switch you can flip overnight or ever be perfect at. It involves a lot of tradeoffs.