Yes this is gay and yes Spongebob has a large gay audience. You usually don’t make a quick meal like soup for a friend you’re not fucking or in love with. Squidward was always a gay-coded character. While this relationship portrayal is incredibly sweet, I’ve always disliked Patrick and I don’t personally ship them.
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True for bisexuals in general, but bisexual twinks are always welcome.
I’m sorry you’ve been feeling this way! You look super cute and super sad. If you aren’t already, you could cosider dating a girl who could provide some affirmation and help with beauty and such. From that photo, everything seems physiologically perfect, but I do get a certain vibe that is consistent with the things you’ve said. If you want some advice from random people here, I have some pointers:
You look great! I hope fascist fashion isn’t the new thing. I want to wear my electric blues, fishnet gloves, tights, and microskirts.
You look amazing! And you look quite dressed up by Oregon standards. Is that considered business-casual?
If they’re attracted to me as nonbinary would be almost as validating as attraction to me as a woman. People who call themselves gay or straight seldom adhere completely to their orientations. Today I became friends with another transgirl, one far prettier than I am, and I would fill any gender role to be with someone like her, and I have compromised my gender by butching it up before, and it was a worthy sacrifice. My desire is greater than my self-respect.
That’s awesome! I “dated” a straight guy once, meaning I stopped by to give him a blowjob. I personally like the vibes of gay guys and would consider appealing to androsexuals as a fem a victory, as that would mean my appeal transcends appearance and gender.
And don’t forget, transgirl boners only come from true love
Thank you, you’ve given me a lot to think about.
Good to know! I heard you do that at 40. A bit unrelated, but since we’re talking ages, is there an ideal age for a double orchiectomy? You’ve presumably already had it done, but in the back of my mind there is a possibility of global collapse and I’ll need strong bones to survive, even without medication. I was thinking of timing it with an early menopause to minimize the risk of harm in that scenario, but maybe earlier is better.
PSA levels will decrease significantly to undetectable levels, and reported values need to be interpreted in this context
As someone on HRT with currently no plans for a vaginoplasty, I’m assuming this means the best way to tell if I have cancer is anal examination UwU
Just tell her you’re transitioning. She’s queer, she’ll get it. I told all my queer friends as soon as I started hormones and I’ll give all the gory details of my gender and sexuality to any adult who’s curious. You got this.
Came out over 15 years ago in high school as bisexual; nobody cared. Came out 2 years ago to my father by saying “I prefer guys at this point in my life;” response was “well, that…” Came out last winter to my mother as trans; response was “what does trans mean?”
I’ve primarily heard the meme on /r9k/ and related communities. There’s a strong chance that an unloved straight man who identifies with royalty is the misogynistic kind of incel.
Ah ok, then it could easily all work seamlessly one day.
fwiw F-Droid has an app called Blorp which apparently supports Lemmy and PieFed
You look great!
Regarding your tech question, afaik lemmy and piefed are separate protocols, so if you have a multi-protocol app, crossposting might work better. (EDIT: Or, I’m told, they’re both ActivityPub-based and meant to work together, but at this point in time there are differences in the details that complicate things a little.) Otherwise an instance would need to be compatible but run a bridge that handles that. I wish these things were better connected, thinking specifically of the divide between ActivityPub and Diaspora, as well as Bluesky’s formerly defederated state.
Literally my last relationship
As a transfem I can say with certainty that I have had the same experiences. I’m not saying you should transition, I’m only saying that the behavior you’ve described doesn’t fit a masculine stereotype. This is good, because gender roles are for the straights.
At the same time, there is something to be said for male socialization taking away some forms of emotional expression that could harm your ability to connect to other people. If you come across as stoic or quiet or overly self-conscious, you’re seen as someone who dislikes people. Obviously you aren’t, but this is a perception I struggle with as well. Arguably this difficulty in making friends isn’t a queer issue at all, it’s just a personality thing that you can work on by building confidence and doing more therapy.