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  • My kids had full internet use with only porn and advertising blocking, except for “homework time”, as well as no restrictions on video games (except for fucking Roblox). They recently graduated high-school at the top of their class and continue doing great in university.

    They grew up to be nice, well-rounded young men who make friends easily, aren’t assholes, aren’t glued to their cell phones (which they had since they were little), don’t mindlessly watch TV, can easily switch tasks and “buckle down” when they have to, and have a great work ethic. They grew up with the attitude that internet/cell phones are tools, not rewards or distractions. Once they hit high-school I found I no longer needed to monitor them (and it was starting to feel creepy and invasive). When they had to study they studied, on their own without prompting or timers.

    I had no worries because I know how to read papers, and there was (and still is) ABSOLUTELY ZERO evidence that doing so would be harming, but in fact the reverse is true.

    Kids grow up to be like their parents. Don’t want them to be assholes? Then don’t be an asshole. Want them to grow up with a reading habit? Then read for yourself. It’s that easy.

    It’s interesting to see that their friends who had strict internet/gaming rules ended up turning into complete shitheads they no longer associate with.






  • I’ve always assumed this (and assumed that other people assumed this), because if you talk to homophobes they’ll eventually say something like “it’s a choice!” because it’s a choice for them. It’s not a choice for me because gay porn doesn’t turn me on – and if it did I wouldn’t care anyway because that’s how I was raised. But it DOES turns them on, AND they were raised in an environment where this is THE WORST THING EVER, so it upsets them and they get all irrational and punchy (lesson learned: DO NOT discuss this theory with a homophobe.)

    TLDR; IMHO Homophobes who think orientation is a choice are closeted gays because logic.

    It would be nice to see a better study. Interesting if one hasn’t been done in all this time…



  • Many Americans are fine with what’s going on. After all, they have Jesus to help them through the tough times.

    The rest have been brainwashed to think they need to kill people or do useless violent shit that just gets them shot or imprisoned. Otherwise all they can do is march around or vent.

    Instead forget about the government (they don’t care), and go after the true cause: Billionaires and their corporations, propagandists, fascists, and their supporters. Just quietly take away their assets. Make fascism too expensive for them, financially and personally – because that’s the real problem: there’s no punishment for bad behavior if you’re wealthy or connected. They only care about money, so take it and the remove their ability to make it. Hit them where it hurts them.

    Be non-confrontational and asymmetrical.




  • hexonxonx@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoAutism@lemmy.worldDo any of you have this urge?
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    8 months ago

    I don’t think this has anything to do with autism, ADHD, or neurodivergence.

    Intelligent people are curious. That’s what makes them intelligent.

    IMHO neurodivergent people don’t have a trait for “curiousity” – they’re just more intelligent (if their neurodivergence isn’t too severe) and so are interested in things. That’s why there’s so many in technical and engineering fields, mathematics, science – the really hard stuff (hard for most people.)

    Yeah, it’s still not easy because there’s so much other stuff going on inside the mind, but all that other stuff is going to lead to some pretty cool thoughts that could turn into a paper, project, business, thesis, etc. (if you manage to remember them long enough to write them down!) Over years this builds brain matter and this is where the intelligence comes from (again assuming the neurodivergence isn’t severe.)

    By “intelligence” I mean the raw ability to process information and gain understanding from it. Not IQ.





  • There’s nothing preventing capitalism from being socialist, except right-wing propaganda.

    Capitalism is a (very powerful) financial tool for societies. It can help them prosper or it can be abused and turned to fascism.

    The key is to keep the Capitalists out of government to prevent legislative capture by corporations.

    Look at the Scandinavian countries to see successful social-democratic countries that have embraced capitalism without frogmarching into fascism like the US. Sure, they’re not without their problems, but I’d rather have their problems.



  • That happened a decade ago. You can’t find many pet supplies anywhere anymore because one company owns the distributors and the stores – and they don’t give a shit because they’re American and Canada is too small of a market to support, so it’s left to wither and die.

    The same with Veterinary services. They’ve all be bought up, made into chains, or signed bullshit distribution or service agreements by a single (American) company and now it costs many multiples what it used to for no reason except greed.