I believe it’s the verb tenses. Instead of it being a historical fact, it’s an ongoing practice of an ongoing group of people
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glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🐼irl
2·27 days agoYou should check out Total Fantasy Knockout. The author has stated multiple times that the exact nature of the unavoidable queerness of the story is left for the audience to decide and that they just want to cause people to realize things about themselves, lol.
I do get kind of frustrated when transfems claim for their “team” characters whose experiences and stated feelings map really well onto transmasc experiences, but I understand the impulse and at some point we all just need to take what we can get. (For the record, Ranma does not fall into that camp for me because he very much does not seem to have dysphoria, lol)
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🐼irl
7·27 days agoHardly anyone reads Ranma as a transmasc character though, mostly because he was born and raised male and his female form is rather new. Instead, he’s typically seen as the transfem egg fantasy of “oh no someone made me become a girl! Oh well, there’s nothing I can do.” In the actual text of the anime/manga, he is pretty adamant that he’s a guy, but mostly seems to want to get rid of his female form because it’s inconvenient (he gets comfortable being seen as a woman pretty quickly). IMO it’s got some genderqueer/gnc flavor, but doesn’t map very well onto more binary trans experiences.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
MeanwhileOnGrad@sh.itjust.works•Memes are serious businessEnglish
33·1 month agoI’m really not a fan of .ml, but I’m not sure I see what’s objectionable in either of these posts.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I feel like a girl masquerading as a guy, can someone affirm me please?English
2·2 months agoIf it makes you feel any better, I am very confident in my guess that there are cis men your dad and grandpa would call “not real men” either.
Ultimately, if being a boy makes you feel more like “yourself”, that’s enough. Sorry you’re dealing with unaccepting family.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•DAN DA DAN Season 3 premieres in 2027. Studio Science SARU returns to animate.English
2·2 months agoI’ve heard that part of it is a spoiler and part of it is a pun that’s impossible to translate
Best time of year. I love my little octopus skeleton 🐙 💀 💕
Them: i got an error
Me: ok, what did the error say
Them: i didn’t read it
Me: ok… well, can you take a look?
Them: i already turned off the computer
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLGBTQ+@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Canada issues warning for citizens with gender-neutral passports travelling to U.S.
1·5 months agoImo,
It makes sense for a hospital birth record (not a government document) to note “observed sex at birth”, alongside other measurements like length and weight, since it’s a medical record and gives then a moderately good first guess about internal organs.
It makes sense for drivers license and passport to have “gender expression” alongside hair and eye color, height, weight and if you wear glasses. Everything in that section is self-reported and helps make sure you’re the person on the document, but they’re all things that can be situationally different or go out of date. With how dimorphic our fashion is culturally, gender expression can be pretty identifying, similar to the other qualities.
Every other government document has no business recording sex or gender in any capacity. Neither of them is the government’s business.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Soulslike - Discussion, News, Memes@lemmy.zip•[All] Thoughts? They're kinda cooking I feel like
1·6 months agoYa, I’ve bounced off a couple non-fromsoft soulslikes and they always seem to forget that the games are tying to build you up by challenging you rather than tear you down by defeating you. I can definitely see how those kinds of harsh dev vs player type games could feed into a mindset of “it’s everyone for themselves and i will come out on top”
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Soulslike - Discussion, News, Memes@lemmy.zip•[All] Thoughts? They're kinda cooking I feel like
1·6 months agoIt’s weird because (having only played elden ring) I’ve always felt like I’ve got support from others even though I play solo. There are so many helpful and encouraging messages, from “beware of right” to “don’t give up!” to “well done o well done”, that it always feels like I’ve got a bunch of people at my back, even though I still need to do all the work myself. Even the ghosts give the impression that we’re all going through this together.
Maybe it’s just a thing where you get out the same type of energy you put into it.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Science Memes@mander.xyz•Nice argument, now fetch me some cocaine.English
1·6 months agoGender dysphoria is not the same as being trans. Not all trans people have gender dysphoria and plenty of cis people do. Cis men who do steroids and cis women who get boob jobs typically do so to ease some level of gender dysphoria they feel. The only reason trans people get diagnosed and cis people don’t is the continuing view of transness as itself a disorder.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•Best New Anime to Watch (Summer Season 2025) - IGNEnglish
1·7 months agoIt might be a countable/uncountable noun thing, lol. Like, I wouldn’t consider Dan Da Dan s2 to be “a new show” but i would consider it to be “some new animation”, if that makes sense. “Anime” can be used in either sense and since it doesn’t change when pluralized it can be hard to tell which someone means. At the same time, I stand by what I said that “[x show] is returning and it’s still very good” and “[y show] is new and it’s very good” are statements with fairly different target audiences.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•Best New Anime to Watch (Summer Season 2025) - IGNEnglish
17·7 months agoIMO it’s a little weird to fill a “best new anime” list almost half with returning anime. Like, they’re not wrong picks, but people are either already planning to watch them or they’re not caught up.
It’s very good, but for anyone planning on watching it: take the content warnings EXTREMELY seriously. The show does not mess around.
I’ve also heard there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, so it’s not 100% suffering. But golly gee wiz is there still a lot of suffering.
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•Clevatess • Clevatess: Majuu no Ou to Akago to Kabane no Yuusha - Episode 3 discussionEnglish
2·7 months agoep3
Not yet, but a plan is in motion. (unclear if Nell will survive to see it happen, though. I think yes, but the current trajectory is no.)
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•Japanese political party wants video games and anime to be put under state authority to make sure they’re “wholesome,” and people are angryEnglish
1·7 months agoI’m pretty sure the people complaining about child sexualization in anime are not the same people supporting child beauty pageants and child marriage…
glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Anime@ani.social•Japanese political party wants video games and anime to be put under state authority to make sure they’re “wholesome,” and people are angryEnglish
61·7 months agoIf it were a series of strategies to attempt to reduce the number of pedo/incest anime (not just outlawing them, but influencing the market with regulation of advertising and/or broadcast content), I might be tentatively on board, but something tells me it’s going to be more about censoring blood and gore, queerness, and maybe even themes of fighting against authority, depending on how ambitious they get.


I have no knowledge on the topic so I can’t answer the first couple questions.
However, I will say its a useful correction to say there are ongoing efforts to maintain historical practices if it makes the correctee happy to hear that (as is the case in the meme). It’s also useful to remember that indigenous peoples still exist and aren’t just historical (something a lot of US folks aren’t taught in school)