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  • Dumb question but when people talk about anal do they mean it as a contrast with oral (so, referring to the lower hole, and specifically a nickname for the vagina), or do they literally mean the anus from where the poop comes?

    Cus if it’s the latter, then bruh, are there so many people that like it that way? Why??







  • I mean true, but I looked at transition timelines very occassionally and then saw how people transitioned so quickly in a year or two. Maybe they’re using different methods and also had jaw, nose and hip/bottom surgeries, but still. I feel jealous… I guess it takes time, and maybe it varies from person to person! I don’t know well what makeup for example helps best with feminising stuff.

    I’m on spray (3 doses a day), if that matters to any extent. I started 10 months ago indeed, but I’m already 28.



  • As a European, I don’t think I could trust the US even after ten to twelve years.

    It’s gonna take all MAGAites and fascists dying and/or turning back to normal and then a decade on top of that, before I’m even gonna trust anything there. And a lot of reform.

    Hell, my grandfather refused to set any step into Germany after the war, never for all the 80 years after that period he lived through as a young adult.


  • To be fair, my therapist place is chill too, but on that one regard they were a bit stuck. It’s unfortunate as they’re one of the best in the country for this stuff.

    Also, heh, yeah, the denial beard… I had that too, and exercised extra for the masculine muscles in denial.

    I also was very uncomfortable because my experiments with feminine clothing had been extremely dysphoria inducing. It served as a reminder that my body wasn’t the way I wanted, and I was too broke for stuff like breast forms

    Yeah exactly, I had the same! I felt like dressing femme while still looking masculine, was like an extra slap in the face that it still didn’t “match”. It was nice, but it was at the same time… yeah no. For the breast forms, hugs. I would’ve gotten them for you - I have some that I no longer need.

    And god, I’m jealous - you got the hrt before the hip bones fused?? Damn. I actually considered HRT when I was 23 (that’s at the border), but unfortunately I wasn’t sure whether my family would’ve been accepting. In hindsight they were, but god, I waited too long… though better late than never. I unironically would consider hip and pelvic widening surgery if that existed.

    And yeah same, I’d have started HRT before even appointing if it were over the counter. Fuck the cistem.

    I did learn to do makeup, but I don’t bother with eyeliner myself because I find it a hassle. Lipstick and mascara, maybe some foundation, and that’s it for me, basically.


  • Yeah, I don’t put up with that bullshit either. I might be trans but that doesn’t mean I put up with more.

    As for your body - so it’s taking estrogen early + genetics? Darn. I started at 28… I wish I’d started so much sooner - had I known my family would be positive, I myself would have started at primary school age.

    I have a mostly rectangular body, only extremely slightly hourglassy. I have a small but decent ish butt, not nowhere near yours. I didn’t know I could feel butt envy 😭😂

    My body basically is shaped like a not very muscular twink, with a bit of 85C boob and hip/butt. So I feel like the E’s not done much, but to be fair, I’m only 10 months on it and still taking antiboyotics alongside the F&F’s. I do have luscious hair though, which helps! I hope it’s not too late for my hips to widen up, but I don’t have much hope.





  • Haven’t had that experience (yet? thankfully) in my transition, but yeah ew, I can imagine. I only had a guy be all flushy when I sat next to him in the train, but other than that, nothing.

    I think it’s because guys often date only for the fucks, and not to just have a fun time together gaming, walking, doing hobbies. They’re horny mfs. But yeah, I feel like what you describe are chasers, ie. people who “chase” trans people, not because they think they’re cool, but becaue of fetishisation. They wanna treat us as a sort of property, and don’t actually care at all about us and our issues as people.

    Jealous of your looks though sis, I wish I had that! Either lucky genetics, or that’s good exercise. Maybe I should do that too. Any tips, if I may ask?