Yes dad, I’m gay for girls
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Yet more men stealing credit for our hard work
As the rare transfem top who has no bottom dysphoria and doesn’t plan to lose it … My spouse and I definitely use it :3
Call me osha the way I’m demanding a railing
That’s a super long thread, is there a good summary somewhere for those of us who suffer from “bookmark this for later and then never revisit it” flavors of neurodivergence?
I got lucky with this one. Started my transition at 5’10", HRT has made me 5’8".
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Technology@beehaw.org•X now lets any user AI-edit other users’ images without consent, and there is no opt out
4·18 days agoI mean. They’re supporting a nazi bar, so yes
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Technology@beehaw.org•X now lets any user AI-edit other users’ images without consent, and there is no opt out
62·19 days agoNot every patron of a nazi bar has to be a nazi for it to be a nazi bar
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PC Gaming@lemmy.ca•How video games help trans people find gender euphoriaEnglish
31·21 days agoBeing trans isn’t about sexual orientation, and people can make their games about whatever they want. Let people enjoy things, it’s ok if it’s not for you.
Just chiming in with the others that you’re describing genderfluidity! It’s helpful information if you’re interested in doing anything with it, but just knowing doesn’t mean you have to take steps towards any sort of transition.
I began my transition under the genderfluid flag before realizing that I’m more genderflux (fluctuating intensity of gender, rather than fluctuating gender identity) between girl and “somewhere in the middle” - for me the question that helped me figure out what I wanted to actually do with that knowledge was “If someone just glanced at me for a second, what would I want them to assume I am?” And the answer is “girl” a lot of the time with “shrug” some of the time.
I thought I was “fine” being a guy but damn did I hate myself. Now I love me and find me worth caring about, thanks to estrogen and self-care lol.
Helps me a lot that my spouse is demi, and is my biggest supporter no matter how I present.
I use Chezmoi and a git repo for keeping mine in sync with each other across several machines.
AI image detection is a crapshoot at best, just fyi. They are poor indicators of whether something is actually AI, and shouldn’t be trusted any more than a coin flip.
And “Idgaf if there’s a legion of demons, I have work to do and I ain’t gonna let them stop me.” And “my family is most important to me and if you don’t agree with that, do better”
I run Manjaro, and use neovim for my development. I’ve got a slew of plugins for everything from language servers to database to things like integration with
tmuxand specialty motions.I’ve tried many development environments, but so far I keep coming back to nvim.
I’ve been a fan for about 5 years at this point, and I use it for PHP+js+html at my day job and Rust for personal projects, but also any other language that comes up. Delightful to have one editor that can do basically everything and do it with consistent shortcuts, that I can even run on my phone with a folding keyboard.
My group started with two guys and three girls. Now I’m one of the girls and the guy is the only one
ey Jimmy, gimme a red 40 with nuthin’
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Opensource@programming.dev•What open-source Android apps should people know about?
4·2 months agoMy favorite feature is media auto pausing when I get a call and resuming when it’s done. I listen to music through my workday and it’s nice to not have to scramble to turn it down or pause when a call comes in.
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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🤨irl
15·2 months agoHonestly as a transfem with mostly social and biochemical dysphoria, but with no bottom dysphoria at all, it makes at least a small amount of sense.
If I can be a girl who wants to keep her OEM dick, then why can’t a cis girl want one too?
Same kind of stuff that makes people get a salmacian. People are allowed to want whatever genitals they want, regardless of identity. It just hits weird to think of it that way 🤷♀️











“Girl yaoi enjoyer” to “Guy yaoi enjoyer”
Much like I went from himedanshi (guy yuri enjoyer) to himejoshi (girl yuri enjoyer)