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Cake day: February 21st, 2026

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  • I didn’t single you out, or I should say intend to single you out, but you already called out his bullshit. You did so though by throwing in your own bullshit (that nobody could possibly be unaware of one of the literally millions of issues in our hellish existence unless there was something wrong with them or they were lying).

    He doubled down on his bullshit, and you continued in addressing that. I addressed your bullshit because I thought it should be addressed, admittedly by throwing in my own bullshit. I fucked up, I can admit that, but his bullshit doesn’t excuse your bullshit, and your bullshit doesn’t excuse my bullshit, and vice versa.

    Everybody in this thread is getting heated and being shits in different ways. I’ve made my two cents, I apologize again for how I went about it, and I’m resigning myself from this thread. Have a good rest of your day.


  • Yeah, re-reading through the thread, it’s clear everybody is getting heated and saying dumb shit, myself included. I should have done a better job taking into consideration the context and toned down my language in my comment. I don’t have any ill will towards sneakypersimmon, and I understand why she’s upset, and for good reason. Me calling out one aspect of her post was never meant to be an endorsement of everything leading up to it. Crossed wires in a tense subject I guess. Thank you for being understanding.


  • Why do you feel like women are being hostile just by participating in discussion?

    Why are you leading the question? Hostility is defined by the way you respond, it has nothing to do with your gender identity. And for no reason? Come on. I never claimed your initial comment was hostile, but your later comments disparaging anyone who wasn’t aware of this are absolutely hostile. That has nothing to do with favoredponcho getting butthurt about downvotes. I apologize for coming on strong, that wasn’t necessary, but the statements I called out are were valid criticisms. You’re all over this thread calling out people’s bad behavior, and again, I apologize for mine, but can you at least acknowledge that some of those statements were uncalled for?



  • To be clear, I’m responding to these statements.

    It’s the sheer fact that men can be so disconnected from the struggles women face that you can even ASK that question that pisses me off.

    How do you not realize that many, many women have faced negative consequences for having their nudes leaked?

    Acting like you had no idea women are negatively impacted when their nudes are leaked just makes you look real dumb honestly.

    It’s either that or feigned ignorance because you don’t want to admit that gender inequality still exists.

    My comments were never meant to defend the statements of that one commenter, just the idea that there are legitimate reasons that people may not be aware of this particular issue. No hard feelings.


  • To be clear, I’m responding to these statements.

    It’s the sheer fact that men can be so disconnected from the struggles women face that you can even ASK that question that pisses me off.

    How do you not realize that many, many women have faced negative consequences for having their nudes leaked?

    Acting like you had no idea women are negatively impacted when their nudes are leaked just makes you look real dumb honestly.

    It’s either that or feigned ignorance because you don’t want to admit that gender inequality still exists.

    My comments were never meant to defend the statements of that one commenter, just the idea that there are legitimate reasons that people may not be aware of this particular issue. No hard feelings.


  • No, those aren’t the only comments you’re responding with that reaction to. There’s multiple examples of people in this thread trying to broaden their awareness and you are being hostile for absolutely no fucking reason.

    Acting like everybody is capable of being aware of every single issue when, again, we are all being lamblasted for our attention at every avenue, every hour of the day AND we as a society are becoming increasingly more and more aware of countless issues in the imperialist, capitalist hellscape that we live in, issues that MANY people had no idea existed, that just makes you look completely out of touch with reality.

    Nobody can possibly be informed on every single issue. Yell at the assholes who say its not a real issue, absolutely, but when people are genuinely not aware, either help them or shut up and let someone else. Attacking potential allies just makes people hostile to your ideas.