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BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•Everything wants me to pay rent
381·9 months agoFighting Oligopoly is not a “boomer complaint” they want you to say that because it legitimizes their hostile tactics and takeover.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•trans inclusive hater ruleEnglish
223·9 months agoHate someone for being a bad actor or a bad person but don’t attack based on gender identity. That isn’t attacking them, it’s marginalizing many many innocent people, and it makes them a victim.
Hey pal, FYI not all NonBinary experiences are the same. I commented sharing my experience. If your experience is different, you could’ve just said that instead of being rude or trying to say I’m wrong for feeling the way I do.
I’ve been harassed, yelled at, and insulted by women in the women’s room, but at least they never physically assaulted me. I don’t know if I could count on the men in the men’s room not to do the same and I’d rather not take the chance. I remember a story about a trans woman who was killed in the men’s room and it still gives me chills thinking about it.
I usually go in the women’s room because people clock me more feminine than masc. Men’s room is very risky because they might not care but they might also be violent. If the bathroom is busy I pee sitting down so no one sees my feet facing the wrong way, I don’t really like it and it feels awkward to do which is why I pee standing up when it’s not busy or no one else is in there. I have been caught a few times and the women gave me shit for it, though it was always yelling, chastising, or slurs, they never got violent with me. Most violent one got was grabbing my ear and escorting me out of the bathroom. I don’t know if I could trust the men to do the same. I heard a story of a trans woman who was physically and sexually assaulted and murdered in a men’s room. That story is very much burned into my mind.
I usually try to avoid public bathrooms in general but lately that’s been harder.
That’s what I usually do. Some people get mad or annoyed with me but I imagine it could be physically dangerous to go into the men’s room.
When you’re Nonbinary every bathroom feels like this, not because you don’t know which is which but because you don’t know which choice is more wrong or will get you in more trouble.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksOPto
AskTransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How do people feel about the idea of Species DysphoriaEnglish
52·11 months agoBetter way of saying it is that they are bigoted.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksOPto
AskTransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How do people feel about the idea of Species DysphoriaEnglish
91·11 months agoI agree, it is very weird for people to try and cater to transphobic/queerphobic people by throwing other queer or trans people under the bus. Bigots aren’t going to be more accepting if we attack each other, it’ll just divide and make us weaker.
I really don’t understand why people gatekeep things they don’t know either, like keep an open mind. There’s tons of shit that you probably don’t know yet, but that doesn’t mean it’s dumb or isn’t real.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•oneninesix users after they take over spacexEnglish
7·11 months agoThe cat ears on top are super impractical, yet super adorable. I love them.
Edit: Actually, hopefully in the future they won’t be as impractical as they are now, maybe some of us will have real, biological cat ears in the future. Hopefully (I certainly do cuz I’m a Therian).
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•rule (edited ableist language out)English
2·11 months agoFuck tankies. I don’t know what’s up with the idiots arguing in this thread defending them or saying this point isn’t valid because of the original comic but it needs to stop.
These tankes are the same useful idiots who are simping for Russia and China while being LGBTQ and neurodivergent, despite those countries violent and hostile treatment of LGBTQ and neurodivergent people. The fact that people are sticking up for these dumbasses in this thread is frankly disgusting.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
Fediverse@lemmy.world•Place to post videos to share on Lemmy?English
4·11 months agoIf you want to share videos I recommend !videos@lemmy.world or possibly !videos@sh.itjust.works. Both great communities to share videos, either ones uploaded to Lemmy (though probably not allowed or recommended by all servers) or on services like Peertube and YouTube.
Couldn’t agree more. The masculinity standards people are held to in society are very hostile and unfair. People should not be expected to be violent or hold back their emotions just because they are male.
Report it. Most admins don’t take kindly to this, even as a joke or trolling.
I believe she’s on Reddit, here’s her profile:
https://www.reddit.com/user/Zhidoscope/
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksOPto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Egg_IRL
6·1 year agoI’m glad you like it. It really is an awesome comic.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksto
Fediverse@lemmy.world•Surf is a "Social Browser" App From FlipboardEnglish
2·1 year agoDo you maybe mind sharing your APK with VirusTotal score so that people who want to try it can do so without giving their email away?
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksOPMto
videos@sh.itjust.works•Fear of Cold: Jacob GellerEnglish
1·1 year agoWhat do you think of this video essay? Anything you’d like to share? Feel free to leave a comment.
BomberMan9865@sh.itjust.worksMto
Ask Lemmy@sh.itjust.works•Why does at least one kernel of a pomegranate, no matter how ripe or fresh it is, taste like dirty old socks?English
3·1 year agoGood point, could be that one was bad, I’ve had bad oranges which were bitter. Maybe with pomegranates it tastes different, not just bitter but pungent too.













I’m so glad to see that this has gotten so far. When I saw Ross’ video on it I thought it was probably over. I hope some good change will come of this in the future.