This actually really hurts, cause I experience this all the time…

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    Everyone deserves friends who will dress you up and do your makeup then start crying because you look so pretty

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    I feel you, this sort of envy has led me to isolate from trans spaces online in the past.

    It just hurt too much to see other folks seemingly thriving while I’m still stuck procrastinating/waiting/etc for my healthcare system to actually care for me…

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      “Everyone has a little ‘save the world’ in them, if the only person they save is themselves, that’s enough”

    • Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zonedeleted by creatorOP
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      Girl wth, you’re already past that! (meant positively)
      You’re so darn pretty! I love your eyes and smile! 🩷
      Tbh, jealous of your pretty green eyes. I got boring bitch blue eyes, lol

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        Thanks, that’s sweet of you to say. Unfortunately I don’t have a lot of hair under that hat :(
        Also, I wouldn’t mind being twenty years younger :D

        And don’t say bad things about your eyes. It’s not the color, but the sparkle that counts. And you definitely have that sparkle 🩷

    • Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zonedeleted by creatorOP
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      Lol, I wish I was that short and slender. And I wear a black hoodie, always 😂

      But hey…there’s a silver lining to this.
      If this was me wearing that, especially standing like that, you could totally see my boobs, they’d be super obvious. At least there’s that :3

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    When an account spams communities enough that the communities they’re spamming overwhelm the feed of people not even subscribed … yikes.

    Get more facets to your personality OR bot a little softer.

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          I didn’t bait you into being a transphobe, you did that yourself

          I think we’d all prefer you leave this community, yes

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        When the community itself comes raging into my feed I don’t feel the need to read the rules before I engage, the community didn’t take measures to not engage with me.

        Anyways, I have blocked the user now. Thanks!

        If the community doesn’t want the kind of engagement it just got from a user then they can follow their rules, and block me rather than commenting about it.

        • Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zonedeleted by creatorOP
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          the community didn’t take measures to not engage with me

          😂😂😂
          I can’t. Sorry, I can’t.

          • Maya S. Trojan@piefed.blahaj.zone
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            It’s so weird, even on my prior account, I never did anything but browse the “subscribed” tab. And you know what? I’ve literally never had any communities show up that I didn’t want to see. How strange.

            It’s just hilarious how people want everyone else to curate their experience for them instead of knowing how to curate it for themselves, especially when the tools are readily available for them to self-curate.